I hear ya! Since I live an hour from any small town, I get few visitors (which I love). The ones that piss me off are the ones that come out to visit without warning, as if I'm doing nothing & there's nothing (in my day) to ditch as I sit around visiting for hours. Since I am active & busy, I'm not interested in listening to an hour or two of nonstop complaining about their lives! The ones who do nothing, have nothing to talk about but their gripes (((HUGS)))